<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[My Site]]></title><description><![CDATA[My Site]]></description><link>https://www.asvezes6eum9.com/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2026 23:17:51 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.asvezes6eum9.com/de/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[NOT EVERYTHING IS WHAT IT SEEMS.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Sometimes we look at a situation and feel absolutely certain that we know what we’re seeing. We build a story, draw conclusions, choose a side. And then, all it takes is a slight change of perspective to realise that what seemed so obvious may not have been quite so simple.  Perhaps that is one of the hardest things to accept: two people can look at the same reality and see completely different things. And neither of them necessarily has to be lying. I created this space precisely for that...]]></description><link>https://www.asvezes6eum9.com/en/post/not-everything-is-what-it-seems</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a94242afa04ae36843b61e9</guid><pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2026 16:03:54 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/00f98f_af62b90f235f4bb88a92ac71eaad85ff~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>vanessasousamail</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[NICHT ALLES IST, WIE ES SCHEINT.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Manchmal betrachten wir eine Situation und sind uns völlig sicher, dass wir wissen, was wir sehen. Wir konstruieren eine Geschichte, ziehen Schlussfolgerungen und entscheiden uns für eine Seite. Und dann genügt schon ein kleiner Perspektivwechsel, um zu erkennen, dass das, was so offensichtlich schien, vielleicht doch nicht ganz so einfach war. Vielleicht ist genau das eines der schwierigsten Dinge zu akzeptieren: Zwei Menschen können dieselbe Realität betrachten und völlig unterschiedliche...]]></description><link>https://www.asvezes6eum9.com/de/post/nicht-alles-ist-so-wie-es-scheint</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a942604624fb3daa086abd5</guid><pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2026 16:03:25 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/00f98f_af62b90f235f4bb88a92ac71eaad85ff~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>vanessasousamail</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[NEM TUDO É O QUE PARECE.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Às vezes olhamos para uma situação e temos a certeza absoluta de que sabemos o que estamos a ver. Construímos uma história, tiramos conclusões, escolhemos um lado. E depois basta mudar ligeiramente de lugar para perceber que aquilo que parecia tão óbvio talvez não fosse assim tão simples.  Talvez seja essa uma das coisas mais difíceis de aceitar: duas pessoas podem olhar para a mesma realidade e ver coisas completamente diferentes. E nenhuma delas precisa necessariamente de estar a mentir. Eu...]]></description><link>https://www.asvezes6eum9.com/post/nem-tudo-%C3%A9-o-que-parece</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a934965e8b86adaa103ad2a</guid><pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2026 16:02:51 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/00f98f_af62b90f235f4bb88a92ac71eaad85ff~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>vanessasousamail</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[DINHEIRO NÃO TRAZ FELICIDADE. SERÁ?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Há frases que repetimos tantas vezes que, a certa altura, deixamos de pensar se fazem realmente sentido. “Dinheiro não traz felicidade.” Será? Eu acho que traz. Não compra saúde. Não compra amor verdadeiro. Não compra tempo. Não impede que alguém que amamos morra. Não cura uma doença só porque temos uma conta bancária recheada. Mas daí até dizer que dinheiro não traz felicidade vai uma distância enorme. Dinheiro compra uma viagem. E digam-me que não há felicidade naquele momento em que...]]></description><link>https://www.asvezes6eum9.com/post/dinheiro-n%C3%A3o-traz-felicidade-ser%C3%A1</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a98746bc44e302e15063bb4</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2026 19:16:04 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/00f98f_303c2d2295064f469cf47aaf38e7b8ac~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>vanessasousamail</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[MONEY DOESN’T BUY HAPPINESS. DOES IT?]]></title><description><![CDATA[There are phrases we repeat so often that, at some point, we stop wondering whether they actually make sense. “Money doesn’t buy happiness.” Doesn’t it? I think it can. It doesn’t buy health. It doesn’t buy true love. It doesn’t buy time. It can’t stop someone we love from dying. It can’t cure an illness just because we have a healthy bank balance. But there is an enormous distance between that and saying that money doesn’t bring happiness. Money buys a trip. And tell me there isn’t happiness...]]></description><link>https://www.asvezes6eum9.com/en/post/money-doesn-t-buy-happiness-does-it</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a987507656ee28b29a1aaaf</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2026 19:15:46 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/00f98f_303c2d2295064f469cf47aaf38e7b8ac~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>vanessasousamail</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[GELD MACHT NICHT GLÜCKLICH. ODER DOCH?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Es gibt Sätze, die wir so oft wiederholen, dass wir irgendwann gar nicht mehr darüber nachdenken, ob sie eigentlich stimmen. „Geld macht nicht glücklich.“ Oder doch? Ich glaube, es kann durchaus glücklich machen. Geld kauft keine Gesundheit. Es kauft keine wahre Liebe. Es kauft keine Zeit. Es kann nicht verhindern, dass ein Mensch, den wir lieben, stirbt. Und es heilt keine Krankheit, nur weil unser Bankkonto gut gefüllt ist. Aber zwischen all dem und der Behauptung, Geld könne kein Glück...]]></description><link>https://www.asvezes6eum9.com/de/post/geld-macht-nicht-gl%C3%BCcklich-oder-doch</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a98755456206886abf7d536</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2026 19:15:09 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/00f98f_303c2d2295064f469cf47aaf38e7b8ac~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>vanessasousamail</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[WITH NO ONE. FOR NO ONE. BELONGING TO NO ONE.]]></title><description><![CDATA[There comes a moment when we realise that some things should never have to be negotiated. Our peace, for example. Our dignity. The way we want to be treated. For a long time, we confuse love with effort. We think there is something beautiful about insisting. Trying one more time. Explaining ourselves better. Giving another chance. Waiting a little longer. As if loving someone deeply were enough to make two people work. It isn’t. There are relationships in which we slowly give away small parts...]]></description><link>https://www.asvezes6eum9.com/en/post/with-no-one-for-no-one-belonging-to-no-one</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a986fcf25a7860c17764229</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2026 18:52:48 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/00f98f_799fbae3edfe432e86d63fb10084dc09~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_878,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>vanessasousamail</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[MIT NIEMANDEM. FÜR NIEMANDEN. NIEMANDEM GEHÖREN.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Es kommt ein Moment, in dem wir verstehen, dass manche Dinge niemals verhandelbar sein sollten. Unser innerer Frieden zum Beispiel. Unsere Würde. Die Art, wie wir behandelt werden möchten. Lange Zeit verwechseln wir Liebe mit Anstrengung. Wir finden es schön, nicht aufzugeben. Es noch einmal zu versuchen. Uns besser zu erklären. Noch eine Chance zu geben. Noch ein bisschen länger zu warten. Als wäre es genug, jemanden sehr zu lieben, damit zwei Menschen miteinander funktionieren. Das ist es...]]></description><link>https://www.asvezes6eum9.com/de/post/mit-niemandem-f%C3%BCr-niemanden-niemandem-geh%C3%B6ren</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a987021001e1daf05bfb7d2</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2026 18:52:30 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/00f98f_799fbae3edfe432e86d63fb10084dc09~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_878,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>vanessasousamail</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[COM NINGUÉM. POR NINGUÉM. DE NINGUÉM.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Há um momento em que percebemos que algumas coisas não deviam precisar de ser negociadas. A nossa paz, por exemplo. A nossa dignidade. A forma como queremos ser tratadas. Durante muito tempo, confundimos amor com esforço. Achamos bonito insistir. Tentar mais uma vez. Explicar melhor. Dar outra oportunidade. Esperar mais um pouco. Como se amar muito fosse argumento suficiente para fazer duas pessoas resultar. Não é. Há relações em que vamos cedendo pequenas partes de nós sem perceber....]]></description><link>https://www.asvezes6eum9.com/post/com-ningu%C3%A9m-por-ningu%C3%A9m-de-ningu%C3%A9m</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a986e8f106fc826b44fc3cc</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2026 18:47:48 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/00f98f_799fbae3edfe432e86d63fb10084dc09~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_878,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>vanessasousamail</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[GROUND YOURSELF. GROUND YOURSELF.]]></title><description><![CDATA[There are days when you just want to tell everything and everyone to fuck off. There. I said it. Now that we’ve got that out of the way, we can talk like adults. Because some days are just like that. Sometimes nothing particularly terrible has even happened. It’s just one thing here. Another thing there. Someone who said something they shouldn’t have. Someone else who said absolutely nothing when they should have. A problem that had already been solved and, apparently, missed us. A message. A...]]></description><link>https://www.asvezes6eum9.com/en/post/ground-yourself-ground-yourself</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a9868eaf8b296c886845272</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2026 18:27:13 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/00f98f_95d0450779354808afd3524092f32926~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>vanessasousamail</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[ATERRA. ATERRA.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Há dias em que uma pessoa quer mandar tudo para o caralho. Pronto. Disse. Agora que já tirámos isto do caminho, podemos conversar como adultos. Porque há dias assim. Às vezes nem aconteceu nenhuma tragédia. É só uma coisa aqui. Outra ali. Alguém que disse o que não devia. Outro que não disse absolutamente nada quando devia. Um problema que já estava resolvido e, aparentemente, ficou com saudades nossas. Uma mensagem. Uma conta. Uma obrigação. Uma pessoa que naquele dia respira um bocadinho...]]></description><link>https://www.asvezes6eum9.com/post/aterra-aterra</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a9867a6887fa485c8d920b8</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2026 18:26:51 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/00f98f_95d0450779354808afd3524092f32926~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>vanessasousamail</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[KOMM RUNTER. KOMM RUNTER.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Es gibt Tage, an denen man einfach alles zum Teufel schicken möchte. So. Jetzt ist es raus. Nachdem wir das geklärt haben, können wir uns wie Erwachsene unterhalten. Denn solche Tage gibt es. Manchmal ist nicht einmal etwas wirklich Schlimmes passiert. Es ist einfach eine Sache hier. Eine andere dort. Jemand, der etwas gesagt hat, was er besser nicht gesagt hätte. Jemand anderes, der absolut nichts gesagt hat, obwohl er es hätte tun sollen. Ein Problem, das eigentlich schon gelöst war und uns...]]></description><link>https://www.asvezes6eum9.com/de/post/komm-runter-komm-runter</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a986984db06d281ab49b895</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2026 18:25:15 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/00f98f_95d0450779354808afd3524092f32926~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>vanessasousamail</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[I LIKE COFFEE. I JUST DON’T LIKE DRINKING IT.]]></title><description><![CDATA[I like the smell. A lot. In fact, I like it so much that sometimes I ask people to let me smell their coffee. Yes, I know. Written like that, it sounds weird. But there’s something about the smell of coffee that I love. The aroma, the ritual, the warm cup, that moment when someone sits down and it feels as if the world slows down for five minutes. The problem starts when it’s time to actually drink it. Black coffee? I can’t do it. And then there are those cases where someone might actually...]]></description><link>https://www.asvezes6eum9.com/en/post/i-like-coffee-i-just-don-t-like-drinking-it</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a9429be856aae2af05bae2a</guid><pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2026 16:10:55 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/00f98f_ee6bccc2037f4e86bb7c7cfc314e9483~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>vanessasousamail</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[ICH MAG KAFFEE. ICH TRINKE IHN NUR NICHT GERN]]></title><description><![CDATA[Ich mag den Geruch. Sehr sogar. Eigentlich mag ich ihn so sehr, dass ich manchmal andere Leute frage, ob ich an ihrem Kaffee riechen darf. Ja, ich weiß. Wenn man das so liest, klingt es ziemlich seltsam. Aber der Geruch von Kaffee hat etwas, das ich liebe. Das Aroma, das Ritual, die warme Tasse, dieser Moment, wenn sich jemand hinsetzt und es scheint, als würde die Welt für fünf Minuten ein bisschen langsamer werden. Das Problem beginnt, wenn es ans Trinken geht. Schwarzer Kaffee? Geht gar...]]></description><link>https://www.asvezes6eum9.com/de/post/ich-mag-kaffee-ich-trinke-ihn-nur-nicht-gern</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a942c69caa28fb6600ed018</guid><pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2026 16:10:28 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/00f98f_ee6bccc2037f4e86bb7c7cfc314e9483~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>vanessasousamail</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[EU GOSTO DE CAFÉ. SÓ NÃO GOSTO DE O BEBER.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Gosto do cheiro. Muito. Na verdade, gosto tanto que às vezes peço às pessoas para me deixarem cheirar o café delas. Sim, eu sei. Escrito assim parece estranho. Mas há qualquer coisa no cheiro do café que eu adoro. O aroma, o ritual, a chávena quente, aquele momento em que alguém se senta e parece que o mundo abranda durante cinco minutos. O problema é quando chega a parte de beber. Café puro? Não consigo. E depois há ainda aqueles casos em que a pessoa até podia gostar… mas o corpo decidiu...]]></description><link>https://www.asvezes6eum9.com/post/eu-gosto-de-caf%C3%A9-s%C3%B3-n%C3%A3o-gosto-de-o-beber</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a94285021ca4b8be9683077</guid><pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2026 16:10:01 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/00f98f_ee6bccc2037f4e86bb7c7cfc314e9483~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>vanessasousamail</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[THE BALLOON SELLER]]></title><description><![CDATA[When I was little, I loved balloons. I loved the colours, the shapes, that almost absurd lightness of something so simple being able to feel so special. There was something about a balloon that, as a child, seemed enough to make a day better. Today, I still notice them. But not in the same way. Now, when I see someone selling balloons, my eyes are no longer drawn so much to the red, the yellow, the blue, or the character printed on the plastic. I find myself looking at the person holding the...]]></description><link>https://www.asvezes6eum9.com/en/post/the-balloon-seller</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a942f9ff20ed98159c46862</guid><pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2026 16:09:41 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/00f98f_62801666421a4e0c8f71fb07f290b432~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>vanessasousamail</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[DER BALLONVERKÄUFER]]></title><description><![CDATA[Als ich klein war, liebte ich Luftballons. Ich mochte die Farben, die Formen, diese fast absurde Leichtigkeit, mit der etwas so Einfaches so besonders wirken konnte. Als Kind hatte ein Luftballon etwas an sich, das ausreichte, um einen Tag ein bisschen schöner zu machen. Auch heute fallen sie mir noch auf. Aber nicht mehr auf die gleiche Weise. Wenn ich heute jemanden sehe, der Luftballons verkauft, bleibt mein Blick nicht mehr so sehr am Rot, Gelb oder Blau oder an der Figur auf dem Ballon...]]></description><link>https://www.asvezes6eum9.com/de/post/der-ballonverk%C3%A4ufer</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a943041d0a61b1413ccb00f</guid><pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2026 16:09:16 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/00f98f_62801666421a4e0c8f71fb07f290b432~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>vanessasousamail</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[O VENDEDOR DE BALÕES]]></title><description><![CDATA[Quando era pequena, adorava balões. Gostava das cores, dos formatos, daquela leveza quase absurda de uma coisa tão simples conseguir parecer tão especial. Havia qualquer coisa num balão que, em criança, parecia suficiente para tornar um dia melhor. Hoje continuo a reparar neles. Mas já não da mesma maneira. Agora, quando vejo alguém a vender balões, o meu olhar já não fica tanto preso ao vermelho, ao amarelo, ao azul ou ao personagem estampado no plástico. Fico a olhar para a pessoa que...]]></description><link>https://www.asvezes6eum9.com/post/o-vendedor-de-bal%C3%B5es</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a942efaba5fc19bcbb695c1</guid><pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2026 16:08:47 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/00f98f_62801666421a4e0c8f71fb07f290b432~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>vanessasousamail</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[RECIPROCITY OR REVENGE?]]></title><description><![CDATA[There’s a word we like very much: reciprocity. We usually use it for good things. You give me affection, I give you affection. You respect me, I respect you. You’re there for me, I’m there for you. You care for me, I care for you. It seems simple. But no one ever said reciprocity had to exist only in a positive sense. If you ignore me, I may start ignoring you. If you stop being available to me, I may stop being available to you. If you treat me coldly, I may respond with the same coldness....]]></description><link>https://www.asvezes6eum9.com/en/post/reciprocity-or-revenge</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a94347d989e24474b7d07b6</guid><pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2026 16:08:16 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/00f98f_ab6e0dfb82d64cccb6d250e299b7b918~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>vanessasousamail</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[REZIPROZITÄT ODER RACHE?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Es gibt ein Wort, das wir sehr mögen: Reziprozität. Normalerweise verwenden wir es für schöne Dinge. Du schenkst mir Zuneigung, ich schenke dir Zuneigung. Du respektierst mich, ich respektiere dich. Du bist für mich da, ich bin für dich da. Du kümmerst dich um mich, ich kümmere mich um dich. Klingt einfach. Aber niemand hat gesagt, dass Reziprozität nur im positiven Sinne existieren muss. Wenn du mich ignorierst, kann ich anfangen, dich zu ignorieren. Wenn du nicht mehr für mich da bist, kann...]]></description><link>https://www.asvezes6eum9.com/de/post/reziprozit%C3%A4t-oder-rache</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a9434e52e57cceecbf1f9ec</guid><pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2026 16:07:47 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/00f98f_ab6e0dfb82d64cccb6d250e299b7b918~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>vanessasousamail</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>